The young do not spring from the the earth fully formed. … More Generations

Time is a plow pulled by a blind mule. It does not pause for our reflections or our protestations. We can put a hand to the till and try to guide it, or we can get out of the way. Eventually, we all grow weary of our labors, of plowing or of running away, and we lay down to rest in the field. Eventually, all of our efforts will be turned under to nourish the next crop, just as we were once nourished. … More To Everything There Is A Season

The picture at the top of the page is the Karpman Drama Triangle. You may have seen it if you’re familiar with transactional analysis. I first saw it in training for a job working with adjudicated youth. At first, I didn’t think anything so simple could be very useful. But a hammer is a simple … More Keep Calm and Carry On

  This week we’re going to give you something to think about besides politics, though for some, this issue, like all issues, can be political. This problem will be with us long after whatever media circus currently occupies our pixelated collective consciousness. Seth McLamb is a young father, an outdoorsman and an engineer with a … More Cheap and Effective or Toxic and Ugly?

Spring cleanup on the farm is a fine thing, full of energy and anticipation, but I prefer the fall, mellowed by reflection and slowed by caution for that undiscovered yellow jacket nest and the snake looking for a place to soak up the morning sun. Autumn cleanup is subject to the welcome interruption of having … More Falling Leaves, Gathering Memories

  A useful definition of intelligence is the ability to adapt to and thrive in one’s environment. Multiple studies have shown that intelligence is declining worldwide. Multiple studies have also shown that humans are getting smarter. The question of intelligence is a a good example of the challenge in finding truth in the age of … More The Intelligence Test

Everyone has a right to an opinion, but nobody is entitled to one. Opinions are worthless unless formed by reason and informed by fact. A worthwhile opinion takes effort. This is one of the reasons why we rarely give advice. Advice is usually an unwelcome visitor, and even when invited, it is expected to be … More The Value of Advice

Pages turned with every step we took, telling stories mysterious and astonishing. All of it was information we could use. … More Rats Under The Floor

We have some practical advice for you this morning. It is the distilled wisdom of  many hundreds of thousands of miles traveled on the highways commuting, towing and hauling. It comes at a time when the veneer of civilization that covers our civil society has grown thin in places, and the roadways are beset by … More Beware the Jack-in-the-Box and Other Road Hazards

Has anyone in the long history of humanity ever changed their mind because someone insulted them? … More Still On The Playground